We think it is difficult to think you yet is unwilling to even discuss getting help
I have been with my man for 10 years and I still fancy the pants off h that she loves. Sure sex isnt enjoy it was at the days that are early an average of twice per week with plenty of handholding/cusdles etc. I believe it keeps the connection near if you’re intimatem. Has she stated she isnt interested in you any longer?? Intercourse once per month seems a long time and energy to me. You state its been like this for 7 years. Bloody hell.
As a lady, sometimes life/chores/children do block the way with sex-life (my experience) but we think it is therefore sad you are getting no real love from her.
You seem lonely op.
Welcome to my globe, if one of you requires closeness therefore the other does it not’s a genuine problem. You will need to treat it ahead of the void gets too large also it becomes impossible. You need to make some big decisions if it isn’t addressable.
Ps when a thirty days will be an extravagance, i am fortunate with maybe once or twice per year
She perhaps prevents real contact because she is concerned it may lead you into thinking you will have sexual intercourse.
Think about suggesting you may like to have cuddle in or offer one another straight straight back massage however with an understanding it is not quite as a lead as much as intercourse.
Then it might open the way for her to be more physically affectionate if you take the pressure off. (altro…)